Charming Vs. Ghetto

January 10th, 2010 · 14 Comments · Crazy wedding lady

A conversation I had with my friend Jenny, a real-life bartender, about serving beer and soda at our wedding.

Me: Should bartenders pour bottles into glasses or is it okay to just hand people the bottles?

Jenny: Just give people the bottles. You weren’t under the impression your friends were classy people were you?

Me: We want semi-classy!

Jenny: With the right set up, even grabbing drinks from a cooler can be classy. It could be really cute if you had huge tins filled with ice, flowers and bottles of beverages.

Me: Yeah, maybe. But there is a thin line between charming and ghetto.

Jenny: Charming is just ghetto dressed up to go out.

Me: Hahaha, there is a blog post in here somewhere I’m sure.

14 responses so far ↓

  • 1 mandy // Jan 10, 2010 at 9:29 pm

    Haha, so true. Your friend is a wise lady.

  • 2 rachel // Jan 10, 2010 at 9:38 pm

    so, so true. before we decided to do the destination thing, we were going to do a back yard wedding with a keg and bottles in hammered tin buckets. :)

  • 3 natasha // Jan 11, 2010 at 12:57 am

    i’ll have you know that i am classy. i may have been the only person drinking beer during jess’ wedding ceremony but at least i ducked each time i took a swig from the bottle. love you.

  • 4 andhari // Jan 11, 2010 at 7:11 am

    HAHAHA true. We all could dress up real nice but then when there are boozes and dancing involved..well..:P

  • 5 meredith // Jan 11, 2010 at 11:01 am

    we’re serving beer from a tap and using mason jars for glasses. . . charming or ghetto? :-)

  • 6 m@ // Jan 11, 2010 at 11:12 am

    So keg stands are still charming as long as we hold the girls’ dresses up as they do them? Gotcha.

  • 7 Kyla Roma // Jan 11, 2010 at 2:38 pm

    lol I really love this.
    Even more because you used the G word ;)

  • 8 The Best Man // Jan 11, 2010 at 3:10 pm

    Is the G Word “Greece”? Because that’s where we are going for Matt’s bachelor party. This way he won’t even need a Honeymoon after. OPA!!!

  • 9 liz // Jan 11, 2010 at 3:19 pm

    i like how you’re blogging more often now. it’sa niiiice~

  • 10 katelin // Jan 11, 2010 at 5:11 pm

    i totally agree that bars can be dressed up and getting beers from a cooler can be classyish. but i do agree, a fine fine line between charming and ghetto.

  • 11 Nina // Jan 11, 2010 at 10:20 pm

    I like the beer in mason jars idea.

  • 12 Heather Rose // Jan 12, 2010 at 12:47 am

    Hilarious, and ever so true.

  • 13 Jamie // Jan 12, 2010 at 8:25 pm

    hahah charming IS ghetto dressed up. Love it.

  • 14 jimaiemarie // Jan 15, 2010 at 6:00 pm

    aaaahaha!!! this conversation was hysterical! SO true.

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